Exactly, Samuel! I can't tell you how much and how deeply I care about this thing that affects everything and all their relationships!
I lived this! And I wouldn't wish it on anyone. Becoming conscious was the only way, the only process.
Parents don't realize this. My ex and I choose to focus on our child and show respect for each other. This isn't a fight to make one parent to look better. Stupid power games to control little people is pathetic. Better to focus energy on building than destroying.
Peace & love!