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KARENSWORLD | ATTENTION ECONOMY

Attention Is the Currency of Boring Delusional Women of All Ages

Lata Kokal (formerly Neha Sonney)
7 min readSep 11, 2022

They’re walking 🚩red flags🚩 with no personality and say “Like” like every third word. Men of all ages avoid them like the plague.

Photo by Mikhail Nilov

Girls. Your dressing hot doesn’t make you a great catch for a man.

You got to have personality.

Nose rings, extra piercings, layers of makeup, pumped-up lips & boobs, fluorescent hair, tats and crop tops don’t add to you personality. They don’t make you different.

If all you do is hop bar to bar with your friends, shop till you drop, take selfies to influence your followers, staple palm tree leaves onto your eyeballs, glue on 12-inch raptor nails, color your hair a fluorescent shade, say ‘like’ a thousand times a day, and you can’t live without your smartphone then your chances of finding a guy who will want to marry you and have children with you is Negative 10.

My 18-year old stepson knows what wife material is for him — someone with whom he can play chess with at the library instead of shopping.

He may have sex with girls with no personality, but he wouldn’t consider them as long-term friends or ever wanna marry them.

What constitutes having a personality?

I’m glad you asked. All positive, active and proactive interests and hobbies that don’t involve consuming things, by yourself or with others make you an interesting person to hang out with. ‘Coz you have personality.

This list could be endless — arts, crafts, dancing, hiking, walking, running, volunteering, listening and being interested in others.

Attention is a finite resource.

You know how to keep yourself entertained, occupied and happy. You have better things to do in life than waste your time with idle gossip, clothes, phone or Chanel bag. Instead, consider spending that attention and money on worthier pursuits that help you get to know yourself better. Doing so will help you exude that calm confidence men find hard to resist.

These girls (in the below video) are a pain in comparison. I don’t see them becoming wives anytime soon. They don’t look happy…

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Lata Kokal (formerly Neha Sonney)
Lata Kokal (formerly Neha Sonney)

Written by Lata Kokal (formerly Neha Sonney)

Heals narcissistic abuse, tries not to worry much & defuses emotional time bombs for fun | Free resources: NehaSonney.Gumroad.com | IG: @nehasonneyofficial

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